For Men

(Or People with bodies Assigned Male at Birth)

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Chest & Nipples

  • Yes, men and masculine folks have them.
    And yes, they can feel good. Some people love them touched, some don’t care, and others hate it. Some are more sensitive than others.

    Penis

    • The shaft is sensitive all over, but especially near the tip.

    • The underside near the head?
      That little V-shaped spot? Super intense for a lot of folks.

    • Cut or uncut, both totally normal

    • Some foreskins are tighter than others

  • Is your Foreskin tight?

    If you have a foreskin that feels super snug over the head of your dick (so it doesn’t pull back easily), you’re not alone. Lots of people have tight foreskins, and it’s nothing to feel weird about- in fact, some people also find it hot!

    Here’s the lowdown:
    Normal: It’s common, especially if you’ve never pulled it back much.

    Not Dirty: Having foreskin doesn’t mean you’re unclean; just wash gently with warm water.

    Take It Slow: Forcing it back can hurt or tear. If you want to stretch it, do it gradually over time (a little at a time when you’re soft).

    Use Lube: If you’re trying to retract it during play or washing, a bit of lube can help avoid friction.

    Watch for Pain: If it feels tight during an erection or sex, that’s okay- just go slow. If it causes pain, cracks, or swelling, it’s worth chatting to a friendly healthcare professional.

    You Don’t Have To Fix It: Some people never fully retract theirs and still have great sex lives. Others choose creams or minor procedures if they want more flexibility.

Frenulum

The frenulum is the small, elastic band of tissue on the underside of the penis that connects the head (glans) to the shaft. It’s kind of like the “string” that holds the show together. It’s loaded with nerve endings, which makes it one of the most sensitive and pleasure-rich spots on the body.

Because it’s so thin and sensitive, the frenulum can sometimes tear during sex, masturbation, or if there isn’t enough lubrication. It’s more common than people think, and while it can bleed a lot (thanks to all those blood vessels), it usually looks worse than it is.

If your frenulum gets ripped:

  • Don’t panic; and don’t keep going. Stop sexual activity immediately.

  • Gently clean the area with warm water; avoid soaps or antiseptics, which can sting or irritate.

  • Apply light pressure with a clean cloth or tissue if it’s bleeding. Most minor tears stop within a few minutes.

  • Avoid sex or masturbation for about 10 days, or until it’s fully healed.

  • Use lube next time: Dryness and friction are the main culprits.

  • If it keeps tearing, bleeds heavily, or forms scar tissue, see a doctor or sexual health clinic. They can assess whether a simple, minor procedure (called a frenuloplasty) would help prevent future tears.

Basically: your frenulum is small but mighty, so treat it gently, keep it happy, and it’ll stay your pleasure hotspot, not your pain point.

Testicles:

  • They make hormones and sperm, sure, but they’re also pleasure zones.

  • Light touch, cupping, light sucking = usually good.

  • Sudden squeezing or smacking without a heads-up? Not everyone’s vibe, and usually painful.


    Butt and Prostate:

    • There’s a magic spot a couple of inches inside your ass that can create wild, full-body orgasms.

    • Use lube and go slow if you’re exploring.

    • If using toys, make sure to start small, if you’re buying for the first time.


      Perineum:

    • The area between the scrotum and anus, very sensitive to touch.